needles [they/them,comrade/them]
I am not saying OP is the one trans person being elevated by cis people, and I’m also not blaming her for any bullshit that cis people do, even if they claim to agree with her.
I agree with her that calling random users transphobic for having blank pronouns is useless, and does not actually help transphobia in the real world. At the same time, I think saying “it doesn’t matter at all because real life transphobia is worse”, is shitty, and that’s what I’m here disagreeing with.
As a pronoun, I have no idea. But my friends and I sometimes call ourselves catboy/catgirl/etc…in that context it just means “me but with cat ears”, and it’s just a fun thing. If someone wants that as a pronoun, I am okay with doing so if they guide me on the grammar.
WHY IS THIS DOWNVOTED SO HARD… I AM TRANS…