In Relationships.
I’ve been told that all people in an Adultery are equally unethical & blameful. I don’t agree with this; i believe the upholding of exclusivity is incumbent on people in relationships, not those without.
in other words, if someone with a marriage ring is trying to bang you, its not your responsibility to chastise them & make sure they respect their partner.
i’m curious what other people think & any radical theory on the constitution of relationships, this stuff is very interesting to me
If you know the other person is in a committed relationship, there are pragmatic reasons to not fuck. You probably aren’t the first person they’ve cheated with, so condom up/take extra precautions. Also, do you really want in on that drama? I mean, how good a lay can it be if it comes with weepy exes, stalkers, possible deranged and jilted lovers…
Ethically, you should act such that what you’re doing is a universal rule - “the golden rule” - so if you’re not poly or want a committed relationship in the future, then you probably shouldn’t facilitate cheating when you’re single. If you are poly, probably not the best to be involved with someone who is in a committed monogamous relationship. Better to wait for them to open the relationship, start doing hotwife, or break up/seperate - although that’s more pragmatic than ethical in my book and I’d never want to be someone’s first outside lay in a brand new cuckolding/cuckquean arrangement.
I don’t wanna say that cheating isn’t it’s own kind of fun or that this kind of rule-breaking isn’t hot in its own way, but I just don’t think it’s worth the fuss, drama, and it’s probably unethical. You can roleplay that stuff in a much healthier way and still get off.
