In Relationships.
I’ve been told that all people in an Adultery are equally unethical & blameful. I don’t agree with this; i believe the upholding of exclusivity is incumbent on people in relationships, not those without.
in other words, if someone with a marriage ring is trying to bang you, its not your responsibility to chastise them & make sure they respect their partner.
i’m curious what other people think & any radical theory on the constitution of relationships, this stuff is very interesting to me
Sidenote: My guess is that you really want to cheat and are trying to justify this. I’m here to tell you: There is no justification, you suck if you do this, and should stop doing it immediately. If you’ve never done this before and are thinking of doing it, DON’T.
i’m trying to explore my view of what relationships mean and stuff, nobody in a committed relationship is in the same zipcode as banging me
and i’m thinking a relationship is a thing that should only involve the participants. it feels, to my view, that the hard line of ‘both are cheaters and equally bad’ is transferring culpability & responsibility outside of the breached relationship.
but this thread is gettin lots of interesting responses i might change my mind