In Relationships.
I’ve been told that all people in an Adultery are equally unethical & blameful. I don’t agree with this; i believe the upholding of exclusivity is incumbent on people in relationships, not those without.
in other words, if someone with a marriage ring is trying to bang you, its not your responsibility to chastise them & make sure they respect their partner.
i’m curious what other people think & any radical theory on the constitution of relationships, this stuff is very interesting to me
Why is that shitty? As someone outside a relationship, it doesn’t matter. If not me, it’ll be the next guy anyway. You’re just ripping the band-aid off. Obviously it’s different if you’re cheating with a friend’s partner, but if it’s not your friend then who cares. You’re allowed to shoot your shot and it’s up to them to uphold their relationship. You’re probably ending a shit relationship anyway, cos if someone’s willing to cheat it’s heading to the dump anyway.
I think there’s an element of commitment to your friend that would make it weird and ruin your relationship with them if you cheated. In that case, better to warn them than to get your thrill.
If you don’t know them, then have sex with the hot MILF or whoever. Makes for a good story to tell. If you told a complete stranger that their wife was tryna cheat with you, they might just say you’re lying and ask you to get off their lawn. Feel like it would just allow the cheating to go on for longer.
Here’s a different example. In contact sports, when you’re doing practice drills with your own team, you don’t intend to break their ribs. Come match day, it’s war with the opposition. You have no dedication to them. They’re just another face.
