I will say something a little controversial here and suggest for your own sake that you don’t look for relationship advice on this site.
I don’t think that’s controversial at all
The reason I said that is probably not the same as the reason why others here might say that.
you responded to my comment but deleted it lol what did you say? i said that people on here are kinda lame, which is why
In a way, yeah. What I wanted to say is that people here and on similar sites have some unusual notions of interpersonal relationships that have a lot to do with internet social justice culture, but which don’t correspond to real life for most people, but I said it in a more politically incorrect way that might have caused people to give me a hard time, so I deleted it. There was a time in this site where people were getting banned literally just for downvoting posts made by trans people, so you never know.