Remember, Volcel snitches get stitches
Sure. Looking for long term partners def isn’t universal just something I’ve noticed from peers . I myself have been with my partner 10+ years and we started young so even I’m kinda outside the pattern I alluded to just in the other way. But yea if she and I ever split I think I’d just be chill and comfortable on my own at this point
We are all you comrade 👁
But yeah honestly relationships are better when it’s two or more people who are comfortable with themselves sharing time together and not imposing expectations of needs on one another. That’s how you get unhealthy dependence issues which is something I struggled with when I was younger.
And I know some myself. I have a friend who is always dealing with relationship issues bc he keeps entering into them under false pretenses and blaming his partners when they realize.
