I learned that you can only sublimate, not suppress, political differences. Example, I knew my ex was redneck af (rebel flags/maga). We sterilized our shared life of politics but then I couldn’t help making connections :pepe-silvia:… she walks the dog like a reactionary would. I notice more Trump bumper stickers at the grocery store she prefers (even if there aren’t more and I only decide to notice Trump stickers when she drives).