I’m serious, the few girlfriends i’ve had have literally had to ask me to hang out, not vice versa.
I catch women staring at me quite a bit, (that kind of stare, not just generally looking) but i’m too scared to approach at that point and say hi. I’m fairly tall and good looking, just socially akward as a motherfucker.
it sucks ass.
Flirt. It’s an art of providing someone with the option of escalating or deescalating. It’s not necessarily easy, but you get better at it. And I don’t mean just getting better at “making people attracted to you,” you get better at figuring out if they are or not.
Also at a certain point you can just ask and then if they’re not just be cool about it.
Ya this ☝️
I’m the beginning, it’s as simple as asking where the toilet or salad bar is. It could be a point or it could lead to conversation.
Warmer, later stuff could be like “what are you reading?” or “where did you get that shirt? I like it”.
Later stuff could be dropping that you’re going to a show or art thing later. Again, they might show interest or it could be a “hey that’s cool”.
