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STFU. Are you stupid on purpose? TALKING ABOUT PRONOUNS is not what is stopping “liberation”. You are creating the problem by not using people’s pronouns- you literally admit to not seeing yourself using people’s pronouns. JUST USE PEOPLES PRONOUNS. you don’t need to understand neo-pronouns to respect them. and FYI not being misgendered isnt about “personal validation” it is a serious and harmful action to misgender someone.
I think you responded to the wrong person, this isn’t the person who said they don’t see themselves using people’s pronouns
Sorry!! My bad I meant to @Bread_In_Baltimore who had that shit take. Literally typed too fast.
You did, its just that Bread and Lad are two different posters and I think you merged their shit takes into one super shit take
unless my boy whom I love @Bread_In_Baltimore also said he cant see himself using people’s pronouns.
say it ain’t so
I don’t misgender people, but you’re wrong, it is about personal validation. Like you’re literally validating someone’s personal gender identity by calling them correct pronouns. Misgendering someone is about as serious and harmful as calling someone a fat fuck, it’s mean and can probably do real emotional damage, but it’s not the same as cops executing black men for reaching in their pocket or the military drone striking a hospital.
Please just log off and reflect or something. Something does not need to kill you to be important. Not having your correct pronoun used may not bomb or shoot you but it does serious mental harm- being invalidated isolates you and harms you. Affirmation at no cost to you is harmless. Why would it be harmful for you to just use pronouns as people indicate they want you to. Even if you don’t get it.
First of all, I literally started that comment with “I don’t misgender people” so idk why people keep saying “just use the pronouns”. I do.
Second, my problem is that western leftists care way more about the “serious mental harm” of people in the global north over the absolute physical slaughter of people in the global south, or even people in marginalized communities in the global north. The social gatekeeping is an exercise in extreme privilege that is severely fucking grim.
