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I’m a cis guy who set my pronouns day one. It’s a good sign of solidarity and this site is cool for doing it. But the way this has been handled is a complete and utter shitshow. Ironically, “not setting your pronouns is transphobic” is a really binary way of looking at the situation. By setting up such a hardline stance, the users became hardline as well. I’ve seen a lot of really cruel posting from people who I would consider to be my comrades. I think we all need to chill out a little, including myself. This feels uncharacteristic for this site and these hard lines in the sand do not help our cause.
