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You have to let that resentment go. It will eat you up inside and make you bitter and you will inadvertently close your mind to new ideas. If you are still friends with these people and want to communicate still then you need to talk to them about how in the past you were hurting and you are disappointed that they didn’t see that or ignored it. If they act nonchalant or dismissive then just cut them out of your life. Better to do it sooner than later, especially if it’s causing you anguish.

Source: was a bitter bastard for a long time but hid behind a facade of humor and jokes. Don’t do what I did. Don’t tell a lie so long and often that you start to believe it yourself. I am convinced it is an indirect kind of self harm.

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what else is there to know besides rich people suck and ruin the world even if they’re “lefties”, i feel like being bitter to some degree is a healthy reaction to that unwinnable situation.

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Fair point, but for me I’d rather hate than be bitter. Maybe that’s just semantics.

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That’s juvenile.

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why

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