please stop posting “not all men” oneliners. we all know there’s tons of men out there who aren’t like that, but there’s a reason we all know countless stories like this as well, it’s a systemic issue that lots and lots of men think they need to do dumb, self-destructive steve-o shit to be masculine and the only way to change that and save men from the constant societal pressure to harm themselves in approved masculine ways is to call it out and deny this toxic bs to be the hegemonial form of masculinity.