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Ye i’m sorry if i’ve been needlessly angry in other comments. This whole thing has brought out a lot of passive-aggressiveness and vitriol, and it’s been tiring. Seeing it here once more made me angry again, and I don’t like being angry for this kinda thing. Maybe i’m too optimistic but I honestly like this outcome. Probably the best compromise we can get for now on the pronouns, and opening up a topic that probably would have created tension anyway, so resolving that tension now is good.
Honestly what I feel is the biggest lesson here for me is that communication is, as always, a messy thing. Bad faith, passive-aggressiveness and other such things are extremely unproductive, and we’re used to employ those tactics against bad actors/wreckers/chuds so everyone is used to a default defensive stance, which complicates things.
Anyway love y’all reading this.
