I’m a dude, but I grew up with little sisters and kind of am void of piggish tendencies due to that I think, I realize women aren’t objects at least. Kink is kink and sexuality is sexuality, but I would assume women want to be able to post photos without some nasty ass dude or neckbeard in the comments section commenting about how fat her ass or boobs are or how they would “hit it”. Or walk down the street without some dog trying to hit on her.
I just saw something like this happen on twitter unfortunately and ive seen it life as well from some of friends who I tell to their faces they’re being pigs.
i overcorrect and never say anything about anyone’s appearance.
If I comment on someone’s appearance I always focus on something artificial, like not an inherent part of the body. “I like your boots” or “Your makeup is on point today”. If it’s something that takes skill or effort on their part then I’ll tend towards that bc then I’m commenting on soemthing they did rather than something they are. I hope it works as well as I think it does.
