I’m a dude, but I grew up with little sisters and kind of am void of piggish tendencies due to that I think, I realize women aren’t objects at least. Kink is kink and sexuality is sexuality, but I would assume women want to be able to post photos without some nasty ass dude or neckbeard in the comments section commenting about how fat her ass or boobs are or how they would “hit it”. Or walk down the street without some dog trying to hit on her.
I just saw something like this happen on twitter unfortunately and ive seen it life as well from some of friends who I tell to their faces they’re being pigs.
this was me back when i was younger and in boymode. the threat vibes were hard to shake. only my friend group knew they were “good” threat vibes. it was cool though because in high school there was a core of “tough guys” that allowed our friend group to be openly LGBT in a very country school back when it was not near as safe as today.