I’m a dude, but I grew up with little sisters and kind of am void of piggish tendencies due to that I think, I realize women aren’t objects at least. Kink is kink and sexuality is sexuality, but I would assume women want to be able to post photos without some nasty ass dude or neckbeard in the comments section commenting about how fat her ass or boobs are or how they would “hit it”. Or walk down the street without some dog trying to hit on her.
I just saw something like this happen on twitter unfortunately and ive seen it life as well from some of friends who I tell to their faces they’re being pigs.
Much like gaslighting, I feel it’s overused and an easy excuse to be shitty. I think it’s from being mostly also in more or less leftist tonradliv groups irl that mansplaining can just extend to a cis guy explaining any disagreement or correcting any misinformation. I’ve seen enough people gaslight by being told they’re gaslighting and also just people do legit remember things differently all the time and deception doesn’t always fall into play.
