How do you feel when a guy is kind of clingy and possesive? I’m the jealous type and I get suspicious and anxious women im dating or want to date don’t message or text me back right away.
I often wonder if I have some type of borderline personality disorder, im so immediately afraid of abandonment. Like immediately I assume the worst if I’m not messaged or texted back right away.
Erroneous and somewhat misogynistic thought often says that women are the ones who are clingy, im here to tell you this is not the case lol. I’m just as clingy and workable moreso than any women I’ve me
I’ve gotten some good advice in other threads I’ve made, but I’ll be more specific here.
guy who expects me to instantly reply back? probably a serial killer or worse. Sure, there’s a 12% chance that doesn’t apply to you, but I like not dying and will make decisions based on that preference. Actually I don’t mind dying, I just don’t want to be locked up in a cage in a basement.
I dont expect anything instantly . I do get somewhat jealous and suspicious though on occasion. It’s more of an anxiety thing with me and it has ruined many a relationship. I’m somewhat tall and fairly good looking (at least Id like to think I have nice features) so initially getting into relationships is always fairly easy for me. It’s making them last that I have trouble with sometimes. And it’s due to my jealousy issues undoubtedly.
Also, s far as I know I don’t have the desire to strangle anybody or lock somebody up In my basement. Though I did ask you guys how you’d feel , So I guess thanks for the honesty?
