Not lie entirely on you? You haven’t accepted any fault whatsoever, let alone any of my criticisms or advice.

Trying to point the finger at others to deflect from self-crit is unhelpful, avoidant, and a good example of the defensiveness I’m talking about.

You are not making any sense, are now acting childish and sarcastic towards me, and you need to take a break. Your behavior here is self-destructive. It’s as if you want people to have good reason to write you off.

Again, and I mean this in the best of ways, take a fucking break.