Oh boy
I guess my irl opinion when it comes to marriage is controversial (I believe it hasn’t really been deconstructed since it’s inception and is problematic for a number of reasons), but I’m curious whether anyone shares the same thoughts. Like finding your forever person? 100%
Everything else associated with it like the status symbol, doing it just to do it, inconsistent sharing of responsibilities? No good imo
Could be my autistic brain taking over, but I truly cannot comprehend why something like this needs to be in writing to be “official”
Idk I’m opinionated and sometimes my opinions suck and I need someone to bring me back to reality
No yeah, extremely valid and makes a ton of sense. I can see how it would be different based on how you identify and overall how you see the world. I get bugged about it from time to time, but it probably comes down to what I value in life tbh
I’ve had a lot of good friends I’ve lost because of marriage and that probably sounds selfish, but I take it as an indicator that my decades of friendship didn’t mean much in the end. Shit sucks
