There’s a lot of discourse and you could probably kick off a struggle session if you posted about it. Fwiw I don’t think rich white guys with many mistresses are queer, but I wouldn’t argue against someone living in a polycule or something.
I wouldn’t really want to start a struggle session, I have polyamorous friends who don’t consider themselves LGBTQ+ (as far as I know) so I just assumed it was unrelated.
A lot of polyamorous people would agree, I like this video that goes into it. It’s made by someone who’s polyamorous but doesn’t really accept the queer label. The comments are all really thoughtful too, rare for YouTube
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