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It definitely sounds like perhaps your priorities are different, maybe it’s worth addressing with him. Just a calm, quiet chat.
“I was thinking about our dates and time together and realised we do a lot of things you like to do and I haven’t been advocating for myself. I would appreciate you making the effort as well”
Or something long those lines. If you’re just feeling like you’re completely incompatible then the chat might not be worth it.