I’ve read that gothic lolita fashion actually got popularized by a male! An artist called “Mana Sama”. I always liked the look and to know a big part of the subculture was affected by a gnc male makes it more appealing. I think if work and especially money weren’t in the way, society also of course, I’d love to wear stuff like this when the weather allows, but I’d need to be able to afford a face electrolysis. ^ ^’
And more “everyday” looks
Some sort of dark or light academia that has a lot of comfortable light cotton. Maybe a very light jacket that’s almost a heavy shirt.
Furthermore, I would grow my hair a bit longer and no longer get haircuts based on economic constraints.