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For like the third time in the past year I've found someone who was DTF but it fell through because I don't have my own place

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The rent is too damn high, can’t have shit in California

They’re gonna bury me with my badge

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FourteenEyes [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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I don’t even need to have my shit together necessarily I just need a place where I can fuck

I wasn’t super surprised when I woke up and they had unmatched me, and I am starting to at least see some consistences in my attractive qualities and getting closer to figuring out my type (short, plump, with curly hair or short hair or short curly hair)

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Das_Bruno@lemmy.ml
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If you’re just trying to smash, then get a cheap hotel/ airbnb or something. Anyone that wants to actually date you and is worth your time, won’t care if you have roommates. You might not get laid straight out the gate, but that’s not really the entire point of dating for those seeking a relationship. At least that’s my take anyway, speaking as a heterosexual lady.

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FourteenEyes [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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I mean I floated a hotel room and it didn’t scare them away, but I assume they wanted to get their rocks off and found somebody else to fill that role

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