How many times in grade school did you hear a teacher, administrator or whoever say something along the lines of “a good attitude is the key to success,” or “not with that attitude?” or some variation. It occurs to me that your attitude is a symptom, a derivative feature, of your inner existence, like a fever and cough is a symptom of a cold. Whether you have a serious issue in your life, from home problems to depression, anxiety, etc., or not, you’re attitude is your own personality filtered through that lived experience or hardship, a change in attitude is a symptom of that stress. It would be like a cancer patient asking if the doctor thinks they’ll live and hearing “not with a white blood cell count like that!”
This is just a stray train of thought, what do you guys think?
When I was in grade school, it was almost exclusively Black girls who were accused of having an “attitude.”
