I thought it was an online tik tok thing, but then one of my irl friends said it irl. I feel like it’s bad?

Maybe my tik tok is just reactionary? (hopefully not) idk there are a lot of bad takes that use this phrase, but there are also some funny & relatable posts with it. Am I posting this so I can justify saying it to refer to institutionalization? it occurred to me on some post on here that it might be a ban evasion thing. I’m sorry if this is a bad question for the community, I really don’t want to start anything, and I was kinda hoping someone else would post about it so I don’t have to be the one to ask.

I’m very conflicted about it for reasons that can probably be intuited from this post. re-reading it I’m thinking I know the answer, but I also think it’s funny in a disassociative type way. Honestly, I might just be getting fucked up about it because I heard someone say it irl and it kinda broke the 4th wall for me.

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