As the title said, I want to start dressing better but don’t know where to start, so any articles/links/books that you could provide about the basic is much appreciated.

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Thanks you everyone for the great advices so far! :meow-bounce:

Here some more info about me: Current everyday outfit is just the bare minimum of a t-shirt and a jean. Live in a hot climate, I also tends to sweat . In my early 20, asian, 5’8, 145 lbs, not exactly chubby but close to it, relatively wide shoulder. And like a commenter below say, my goal right now is just to:

get the basics down and look like Generic Well Dressed Guy #53, can start thinking about personalizing it with my flair later

2nd Update: Just want to express how thankful I am of everyone here, putting in so much effort in their replies :meow-hug: .

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Fair warning: if you identify as male and you start searching for fashion advice or checking related videos/websites its a lot like searching for fitness advice. There’s a lot of manosphere overlap and it kinda marks you in the algorithm as a target for redpill content creators. Some of them will even have solid fashion/fitness advice and kinda just sneak the ideology in there…so be wary.

Ashleyweston.com has some pretty solid minimalist/basic guides in her “essentials” section. If you’re like me and you just want to dress better without worrying about being a trend setter: the best path is to sort of amass a wardrobe where everything you have more or less goes together and stick to the classic stapples that never go out of style. Navy sweaters, blue oxfords, khaki chinos, and blue jeans will always be good to wear.

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Start paying attention to what people around you wear. If you see someone that makes you think “that person is dressed nice” try to figure out why you think that.

Best advice in the thread. Fashion is contextual.

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Thanks for the advice! :meow-bounce:

How much money ya got

I live in a third world country, could spend maybe at most 400-500$ on clothing a month.

also where are you starting, what’s your every day outfit look like? what’s your climate? how old are you? what body shape are you working with?

My everyday outfit is just the bare minimum of a t-shirt and a jean. Live in a hot climate, I also tends to sweat . In my early 20, asian, 5’8, 145 lbs, not exactly chubby but close to it, relatively wide shoulder.

once you get the basics down and look like Generic Well Dressed Guy #53 you can start thinking about personalizing it with your own flair.

That’s my intention!

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easy every day outfit that looks nice: dark blue jeans (fitted, not baggy, but not super tight - stay comfy), solid color t shirt

phew, that’s what I’ve already been doing for years. Was starting to feel bad because I’m trying to branch out a bit from only wearing plain black t-shirts, and everyone everywhere says to dress like smart casual or even fancier. I still want to try different colors and maybe different fabric, but idk how to pick or where to look

anyway, thanks for validating my dress style. 😛

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thigh highs, cat ears, choker and skirt

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And nothing else :hyperflush:

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The best thing you can do is ignore all of the advice to get jeans and get chinos / brown colored jeans (uniqlo calls them brown colored jeans, but they aren’t denim). People will legit think you’re dressing up while wearing something that is exactly the same coverage and comfort as jeans.

edit: and also, fit matters more than most people think when it comes to looking “well dressed”

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honestly, r/malefashionadvice/ suggestion threads helped me feel more confident and move on to what I liked

Building a Basic Wardrobe is helpful to get the basics

Item Suggestions at Each Price Point is great to see what’s out there. I hadn’t heard of 90% of these brands, so it was cool to see different stuff

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