I’m not talking about queer people getting called groomers. I know why that’s happening. I’m referring more to a more general fear of pedophilia instead of just repackaged homophobia.
I feel like I’m hearing about it like every other week. For instance, parent bloggers noticing that their engagement skyrockets when they post their kids eating hotdogs or in swimwear. Another example is an increasing trend of people on Pinterest creating walls and albums labelled “hot kids.”
I know that elite freaks are all pedos, but is pedophilia an actually growing problem among regular people? It seems to me like when suburbanites freak out about any other thing like BLM or immigrants marching through and razing their communities. Or the crime freakout in the 70s/80s.
Am I being naive and we actually need to be on high alert?
Basically every moral panic is just trying to not address how pedophilic mainstream US culture is by targeting a minority
This made me reflect on the other moral panics I lived through. DND, Pokemon, Harry Potter. They were all based on the pretense of protecting children from demonic forces.
All traceable back to the Satanic panics of the 80s 😎
I saw some footage from that time, and man it boggles the mind how these trained psychologists just bought into this thing and primed their patients into making up stuff with leading questions. Like kids were talking about (spoiler just in case, but understand there was an FBI investigation and none of the allegations were found to have any basis in reality)
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being forced to watch ritualistic sacrifices of humans and pets, repeatedly forcibly impregnated, and then receiving multiple abortions by the age of 16-18, seeing their siblings being sacrificed
And it also begged the question, if satanic rituals were so widespread back then, how come none of them were brought to justice or even caught. Like listening to these moral panic psychologists you’d think the whole USA was just one big satanic cult.
I’m possibly very wrong about this, but this is an angle I haven’t heard yet. I first noticed the pedophila moral panic emerging at around the same time there was increased mainstream discourse into consent and feminism. Somewhere between 2005 and 2015, that timeframe. A lot of it was reemerging feminist discourse that had been going on since the 1970s though. That’s around when a lot of folk might have heard “rape culture” for the first time. It’s when there was a lot more media criticism about depictions of women. There was a lot of discourse in that time too about sexualizing minors, but from a more sensible angle, not these bizarre child kidnapping conspiracy theories.
A lot of what American conservative paranoia does is latch onto ambient feelings to twist them, re-normalize them to better serve standard American bigotry. In this case I think white suburban ideology latched onto the ambient growing concerns about consent, boundaries, women’s empowerment, all of that, and did trial and error twisting it until landing on something indefensible: Pedophiles. Surely pedophiles don’t respect consent. They’re the worst type of person imaginable, and they tap into that growing discourse. But instead of the discourse focusing on anything liberatory, or talking about patriarchy, or white supremacy, it became a way for conservative ideology to express ownership over children. It’s repackaged queerphobia too, like you said.
It has to be connected to conservative ideology worried about children too. Each of the moral panics in previous decades centered around the autonomy of young people set upon by some social shift.
The 60s hippies were kids who rejected things like the Vietnam draft, or rejected the suburbanization they were destined to be a part of. The 80s were a reaction to more women entering the workforce, relegating childcare to daycares or babysitters. You’ll notice that was reflected in the media too. So many of 80s horror movies are about children left alone in their suburban home while the middle class parents are out, while a working class coded murderer stalks the neighborhood with a big knife. There was a general panic about children being unaccompanied or being left with strangers. The Satanic Panic was a panic over what might be going on in daycares, now that more women were workers instead of rearing children all day.
And now in the 20s, more children are expressing autonomy through the internet. You can’t control who your kid is in contact with anymore or what they’re reading. But who knows where that leads, so the panic is all about brainwashing or secret cults or scary people in masks who will kidnap your kids in the Wal-Mart parking lot.
And now in the 20s, more children are expressing autonomy through the internet. You can’t control who your kid is in contact with anymore or what they’re reading.
It’s interesting that the way conservatives have latched onto this is by trying to dismantle libraries and public education. Like, phones seem like a much more obvious and direct “vector” for the Spooky Satanic Leftist Agenda
or whatever, and yet they refuse to acknowledge it. Funny, considering how much those same groups of people like to complain about this and that new-fanged whatever.
Well it’s important to recognize that the conservatives are just as addicted to social media as everyone else is. They can target TikTok for a ban because kids are the only ones using it - but the only legislation they might ever force onto Facebook will be to force them to unban everyone who got banned for racial slurs.
I think understanding it in terms of reaction is helpful. If I understand it correctly, these panics seem illegitimate and a reaction to social progress.
The new social progress causing reaction, according to you, is children having autonomy in online spaces.
How do you square this with other opinions in the thread that argue there are legitimate concerns about groomers organizing in places like discord and tiktok? Do you think it’s moving out of the realm of pure reaction?
Oh, there are real pedophiles on the internet, yeah. I don’t mean to say it’s just parents being strict with their kids. It’s a legitimate concern, but I don’t really have the expertise to say how legitimate or widespread it is. I do think a lot of the paranoia around pedohpiles does have to do with kids figuring out new ways to express themselves, find online communities, or interact with social media in a way that’s very alienating to their parents. But then…
A random thought I’m having is that a lot of pedo men seem to think their decades of living without consequence will extend to an online space as well. They think it’s just like the office where they hit on their employee’s daughter, then get away with it. Except now there are records, time stamps, pictures, people’s full names. Justin Roiland for instance was caught being a pedo using his main Facebook account listed under his real name with a picture of his face. It’s absurd how little planning these groomers put into this. Maybe that’s why there’s more reasonable discourse about pedophiles now? There’s simply more evidence of it now. It’s hard to dispute pictures, chat logs, etc.
And the conservative pedophilia panic is absolutely reaction, since they’re taking the feelings about the real threat of online groomers and instead focusing on teachers and fictional kidnapping gangs who want to steal white children.Every reactionary movement has to at least gesture in the direction of something that’s real or something that people feel is real, then it’s used to suppress social progress.
Also I’ve also never heard reactionaries mention the very widespread, very real issue of undocumented children getting wound up in prostitution, which is a huge part of human trafficking
I think it’s more an active de-normalization of existing trends. Like there have always been extremely strong tendencies towards sexualizing minors in mainstream American pop culture - I wouldn’t say it was socially acceptable, but more that it was seen as sort of pervy or disreputable on a level with watching porn, going to strip clubs, etc as long as it didn’t extend to (openly known) actual assault.
Like ~10-15 years ago reddit built its name on catering to pedophiles, necrophiles, zoophiles, and violent misogynists in general, even going so far as to openly honor the creep behind most of them. ~15 years ago there was actual earnest age of consent discourse still going on. 15-20 years ago it was common to have middle aged men sexualizing teenage girls on sitcoms, and it was at worst shown as pathetic and something to laugh at. Middle aged men carrying on affairs with teenage babysitters was considered an acceptable plot point in media in general, where the only problem was portrayed as being the adultery and not the predation. *Gestures wildly at literally the entire framing and discourse around teenage popstars going back decades.* There was massive amounts of adult men preying on teenage girls throughout Hollywood and the recording industries pretty much since their very inception, and the scorn it got was because of the lasciviousness or out-of-wedlock sex, not because it was a grown man preying on a child.
Literally the only exception from that time period I know of offhand was The Sopranos of all things having an episode where Tony wants to jump and/or kill a coach who he learns is sleeping with teenage girls, only to have his “morality winning out” moment and calling the cops on him instead. Fucking Tony Soprano had more of a moral compass than the mainstream pop culture.
I feel like there’s been a ground shift towards rejecting these :libertarian-approaching: tendencies in recent years, and that entails both noticing all the creepy shit :libertarian-approaching:s do towards kids and calling it out when it happens.
Gestures wildly at literally the entire framing and discourse around teenage popstars going back decades.
Looking back on Britney Spears is wild and how she was literally a fuck toy schoolgirl in her music video. I was a teen around the time so it was off my radar about creepy older men lusting over her.
There was massive amounts of adult men preying on teenage girls throughout Hollywood
This is literally a QAnon anti-Semitic conspiracy theory.
its quite simple. the Right uses a separate definition of pedophilia. to them, anything that can possibly compromise the dominion of the Patriarch over the sexual or even just independent lives of their children/women is pedophilia. this is why its so universally applicable for them. Sex education, probably the single most effective preventative of actual pedophilia, is itself -to the right- grooming, because it’s perceived to open the possibility for the kids to have any kind of sex that isn’t under the watchful eye of God and Marriage. Also when a Patriarch does actual pedophilia its fine because the victims are their property
on the Left we’re at least clear on what pedophilia actually is, but because of our inherent mistrust of coercive & traditional institutions we do tend to go a little overboard. i don’t think this is a huge problem when its mostly making people angry at the ruling class
yeah, once secondary sex characteristics you can do a lot with cameras, lighting, and basic makeup.
maybe people would be less weird about it if we didn’t have decades of airbrushed 14-16 year olds on fashion magazines and 28 year olds playing highschoolers on TV
this is exactly the kind of secondary issue getting twisted up about that’s overboard. the reeds of culture and art critique does nothing to protect actual people, just massage the egos of people for having the ‘correct’ amount of puritan opinions about casting & content in high school movies
real action for movies are stricter child labor laws & stronger unions. the systems that protect anyone on set are the ones that concretely protect children. i’m far more interested in the performers’ comfort than interpretation of the final work
protecting actual children in schools is about giving them dignity & authority, the capacity for someone to abuse power is a proportion to how much they have. teachers and administrations getting to enact their own tiny tyrannies on schools and classrooms is the environment that facilitates abuse, we don’t need to be scrying into the minds of abusers and determining whether they were led into it by the casting of some adult in a movie (spoiler: they were not)
I don’t think you understand how organized pedophiles are. You can apply a lot of your intuitions about white supremacist organizations to pedophiles and it would be pretty accurate. Lots of dark money donations. Front websites that seem edgy but innocuous but their core usership is full of pedos who have dedicated back channels which control moderation (these tend to also be Nazi safe havens fwiw). TikTok is full of pedos and so is Discord. Not because these platforms are particularly bad, but because they are internet platforms and we have almost nothing in terms of established social norms for protecting kids online. Parents don’t understand the risks. Corporations wanna “offer parental controls” to essentially offload the responsibility onto parents who have no clue those half assed tools exist.
Children’s rights advocacy is difficult because children can be very difficult to organize without a centralizing commonality like abusive child labor to bring them together. But they are one of the most abused demographics in existence, systemically and interpersonally. I know a shit ton of people who were groomed online and have looked back on it like, “oh yeah I guess that’s what that was”
Front websites that seem edgy but innocuous but their core usership is full of pedos who have dedicated back channels which control moderation (these tend to also be Nazi safe havens fwiw)
:what-the-hell: Can you elobarate a bit? This is the first time I’m hearing this.
It’s a reference to several sites like some of the chan boards and the one that got kicked off Cloudflare last year. Fascist leaders have a tendency to be arrested for CP and a lot of these sites have a fast-and-loose relationship with moderating CP. And of course, the crypto wallets that donate to these sites are huge. The amount of money that passes through them is well beyond what you would need to run a site like that, even at the scale they do. Imo the fascist organizing and the pedo organizing are very interlinked