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So I experienced this from the point of view of the person being told recently in almost the exact situation you described:
“X goes by Y and uses she/her now”
“Cool! Ask her what snacks she wants”
arrive with snacks
“Hey Y! How’s it going?”
Kor: Curzon, my beloved old friend!
Dax: I’m Jadzia now!
Kor: Jadzia, my beloved old friend!
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The teachings of Kahless show us that each warrior cuts their own path to Glory.
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You’re definitely overthinking this, it’s totally fine to refer to her as her deadname to people who don’t know and then just tell them her new name
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Same way as you’d talk about a friend from elementary school who used to be called Bobby or Davey and they go by Bob or David now.
