I don’t know what we want to do with this community yet, but I’m excited to hear what you folks are thinking!

Figured I’d open up a megathread for the comm, let us know what kinds of things you’d like to see linked in these, as well as any other suggestions cause I don’t have any plans and didn’t mean to become a mod, pls help

Don’t forget to take a look at the rules, we drafted them up pretty quick so they’re very much subject to change and rough around the edges, we want a lot more community input before we nail anything down

Me for the past two decades: haha wow these neurodivergent jokes and memes sure are relatable, and I feel like I understand completely when my many, many family members talk about their struggles with ADHD, I don’t want to say anything though because I don’t want to downplay their disorders because I’ll never truly understand what it’s like I can only try to get it

Me like a month ago: O fuk I probably have had ADHD this entire time

me like a week and a half ago: O fuk I do have ADHD, dr. agreed with me

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I’m at the ‘O fuk I probably have had ADHD this entire time’ stage

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/r/eggirl but for ADHD

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Isn’t that just /r/adhdmeme . Shout out to @crime for showing me the subreddit and taking a burden I never knew I carried off my shoulders. o7

Edit: Well I guess they aren’t that similar but it had the same effect on me lol.

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I feel this so hard. I’m autistic as well as ADHD, and I didn’t even know that first thing until I was 18, so looking back I can’t help but view myself as a complex series of coping mechanisms and I don’t even know what’s for what

Do you even try to separate it for yourself? I gave up, doesn’t feel like a worthwhile distinction tbh

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Same! After I started thinking about it I realized it felt a bit like ‘curing’ autism, like fuck that I don’t want to ‘cure’ who I am!

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Oh god I’ve had this thought everyday since I was diagnosed a few years ago. Like Im pretty sure retroactively my entire personality was based on a mental illness I didn’t know I had.

“Haha oh goldsound you’re so easily distracted”

“Can you please stop talking/reading a book/using your phone in class?” (I eventually took to doodling in work meetings to keep my hands busy and even that was disrespectful to some)

“Can you pay attention to this conversation for just 5 minutes?”

“Goldsound, what do you mean you haven’t started yet? Its due tomorrow!”

Fuck its such a weird feeling.

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Fun fact to follow: I love my ND Comrades

And I’m glad this comm exists now.

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:Care-Comrade:

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What are the best resources to learn about ADHD? Also, are there any leftist sources on neurodiversity?

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Well for me, I’m a fan of the Channel How To ADHD there I’ve linked one of my favorite videos of theirs, “The Wall of Awful”

as for more clinical resources or leftist sources, I’d also love to know

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I may not be showing it but ADHD really is ruining my school life.

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What is Neurodivergence?

It’s ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we’re concerned


Rules

1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven’t personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you’re ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another’s, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who’s experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm’d.

3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith

4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!

Further rules to be added/ rules to be changed based on community input

RULES NOTE: For this community more than most we understand that the clarity and understandability of these rules is very important for allowing folks to feel comfortable, to that end please don’t be afraid to be outspoken about amendments and addendums to these rules, as well as any we may have missed

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