VeganGuyDebord [he/him,comrade/them]
I’ve talked to couples who are parents that said they circumsized their son just because they didn’t want their son to ask why their dick looked different from dad’s, and men who said they’ll circumsize their future sons just because they’re circumsized. But I’m not circumsized, and when my relationship with my girlfriend became more “serious” we sort of talked about having kids. And she said it would be up to my whether we would circumsize any of our sons or not, and I was just like “it’s not my penis, I’ll let them do whatever they want with it but I won’t make the decision to cut anything off”.
I was in a similar situation when i was younger, except I was friends with her and we had hung out a bunch before and I was sort of friends with her boyfriend too. The friends who found us and broke us up were really mad at her and they got in a verbal fight. When they talked to me they just said “hey, we know that getting fucked up and having sex is fun, but you know she has a boyfriend. We know it’s not really your fault, but you don’t want to hurt [Boyfriend], right?” I still hang out with her and our friends (she broke up with her bf soon after that night), but it really haunted me for a while, and I felt like my friends loss respect for me too. Even now it sometimes it still pops into my head and I cringe, but I’ve never done anything like that again.
I agree with the other people, it’s her responsibility to not cheat. I’m sure her friends were more mad at her than they were at you. But you worrying your actions shows that your not shitty. I’m not the same person I was back then just like you’re not the same person you were then. And since you didn’t have sex, and if your friends don’t hold it against you, then there’s nothing to worry about.
I won’t lie, I called women b!tches “”“ironically”“” until I got a girlfriend and realized how mad it makes me when dudes call my girlfriend, or any of my women friends, a b!tch even when they’re “”“ironic”“”. It’s also when I started bullying me friends for saying shit like that, and when I realized how shitty my dad is.
But I have never called a woman “sweetie” or anything shitty like that. My biggest thing is that I say shit like “yeah man” when talking with women and immediately realize many women probably don’t appreciate that. I’ve also been accused of mansplaining, and instead of dismissing that I try to have a conversation about how I came across like that so I don’t do the same in the future.
But my mom was my main role model / caretaker as a child so I learned about the patriarchy at a young age, and my dad’s a piece of shit. I think it’s what started my path towards radicalization
Bad. I’ve been looking for a job and it’s stressing me out. Whenever I come across a job that seems good I immediately start imagining all the ways I could make mistakes I could make at that job and start feeling worthless. And I have a couple misdemeanors on my record from a few years ago and it feels like I’ll never be able to find a good job because of it. I was working at a restaurant before covid but I feel like that’s not really an option anymore. I have a Bachelor’s Degree but it feels like any benefits that gives me is cancelled out by my record. I’ve found a could jobs that I really wanted, but I would have had to provide a detailed account of why I was arrested, which police department, which court and judge sentenced me, and what charges I was convicted of. Since the charges I was convicted of are less severe than the ones I was arrested for I really don’t want to do that.
Everything just kind of sucks.
When did the DC police start hiring members of the Foot Clan?