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a_slip_boudinage [she/her,they/them]

a_slip_boudinage@hexbear.net
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I just started this. A lefty friend bugged me for years to watch it. I too am ready to be Pirate now, which works out, because I think being a pirate is my husbands only actual life goal.

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Yes! I get the room-temp stuff, give it one good mix when I open it, then store it in the fridge. It wont separate and doesn’t affect the quality.

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Can you say your connection is poor and you don’t have the bandwidth to keep the video on?

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I cope by reminding myself that I’m gonna die whether or not I spend time and energy worrying about it. It took time for this thought to really sink in but these days it calms me. Like, I can let it eat me alive or not, and that’s the choice I do have, the thing I can control. The dying part is out of my hands, but I can still choose where to put my energy and I’m choosing not to put it into the black maw of the abyss.

I used to be extremely anxious about death. by meditating on this I can usually make peace with it. Psychedelics are not for me (sadly) so in case you’re in the same boat I figured I’d share.

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Welp with all the “ekki” I’m seeing it looks like the cliff for me.

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this is the approach i’m taking, definitely firm but gentle redirection with the emphasis being on finding appropriate sources and representing them correctly in your analysis. thank you again.

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if i thought i could pull it off i might take this tack. having all the communication online makes it kind of risky though. and my advisor will have to be on board with any comments i make to the student.

someday, though. someday.

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