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The big thing that isn’t talked about is learning social skills. I think a lot of people are way behind on that. But unfortunately, due to being context dependent, it’s harder to teach someone social skills than it is to teach them how to learn a hobby or an exercise routine. Honestly, that’s what I think people are talking about when they talk about how there isn’t enough advice for men about this.
Social skills are learnable, maybe we need to do more advice on that. Plus, I mean, how can we ever expect to organize if nobody knows how to socialize or build community?
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They just want to hurt men. Why would they deliberately give men good advice?
I don’t claim to read their minds but I think a lot of them genuinely do want to help men in dating, but are operating from the wrong paradigm. For the ones that aren’t, I mean even complete ghouls can give good advice, e.g. do some pushups.