‘Yo Matt you see that chick over there with the huge tits? she wants to talk to you’
a friend describing a woman to me who wanted to start something romantic obviously. Instead of describing her by her brown hair or hairstyle or the shirt she was wearing it was her ‘huge tits’. Really some ‘women are objects with vulvas and boobs’ type shit.
Yeah sorry to all women both trans and cis, shit like that must suck ass.
Treat them like a person? Like, how do you interact with your siblings or family members of the opposite gender? Treat them like that, then if you’re getting good vibes all around ask them for a date.
If it’s someone you’re with, just treat them well. They are a human being like you. If someone came up to me on the street and started being very aggressively polite to me at all times I might tolerate that person and even enjoy their company but I wouldn’t want to be life partners with someone who put me on a pedestal like that