Remember, Volcel snitches get stitches
I’m gonna enjoy time with another person, but also at this point Ive done that a bunch already and if anything goes on for a good amount of time I may consider whether or not I could live with someone long term cause that’s sort of what I’m looking for at this point. Like, that obviously takes a good amount of time with someone to even consider together but I’m more interested now in a long term thing than just having fun and seeing what happens. I get where you’re coming from but different people are looking for different things
This site skews very very young. I think people’s opinion on this starts to change more to your perspective once you start approaching your thirties.
Not universally obviously. but when you’re like 21 it’s definitely understandable to be more concerned about just having fun and going with it bc you don’t realize how short life is about to be like you do when you’re 30. And also kinda like you said when you’re older you’ve had those experience and start to look for something deeper
Sure. Looking for long term partners def isn’t universal just something I’ve noticed from peers . I myself have been with my partner 10+ years and we started young so even I’m kinda outside the pattern I alluded to just in the other way. But yea if she and I ever split I think I’d just be chill and comfortable on my own at this point
