I don’t consider myself particularly interesting, but I would say my interests are vastly different from the average guy on dating apps

I don’t know how to say this without sounding pretentious, but I prefer intellectual conversation over nights at the bar or whatever. I just want to be able to share the thoughts I have floating around my head with someone, ya know? When I’m not on hexbear.net, I play guitar, draw, write and enjoy analyzing different types of media and digging into the meaning of stuff

Stream of consciousness slop, I know, but I’m super high and my thoughts are firing off. Can anyone relate or see where I’m coming from?

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Dogshit advice. “Actually you have the wrong personality and you should just change yourself instead of embracing who you are and determining through practice how to love yourself, therefor becoming a person who is capable of caring for someone else while also not being dependent on them for identity.”

OP do the second part.

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Yeah same, if you don’t take this approach then you could end up in neurotic relationships that traumatize everyone, for years…

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Well I was going to say that i didn’t want to mask myself because that’s basically acting and it’s exhausting

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What is Neurodivergence?

It’s ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we’re concerned


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