I’m a dude, but I grew up with little sisters and kind of am void of piggish tendencies due to that I think, I realize women aren’t objects at least. Kink is kink and sexuality is sexuality, but I would assume women want to be able to post photos without some nasty ass dude or neckbeard in the comments section commenting about how fat her ass or boobs are or how they would “hit it”. Or walk down the street without some dog trying to hit on her.
I just saw something like this happen on twitter unfortunately and ive seen it life as well from some of friends who I tell to their faces they’re being pigs.
Like others have said, online it isn’t worth getting into much, maybe a :PIGPOOPBALLS: at most.
In person you gotta alpha them. Gotta make them feel like weak, small, lame people. You can’t get mad, you can’t scold, that’s what they want. Laugh in their face at them, sarcastically tell them how cool their thoughts are, smirk and roll your eyes, do this, call them a fucking beta loser with loser thoughts, whatever. Just don’t let them see you sweat.
I’m really tall and big so looming at them works really well. Ngl, it’s intensely satisfying being able to cow someone’s bad behavior by just standing up straight and glaring at them. On the other hand, you also have to re-learn how to walk, carry yourself, and generally exist so you’re not giving off constant threat vibes to women and other vulnerable people, so it’s a mixed bag.
this was me back when i was younger and in boymode. the threat vibes were hard to shake. only my friend group knew they were “good” threat vibes. it was cool though because in high school there was a core of “tough guys” that allowed our friend group to be openly LGBT in a very country school back when it was not near as safe as today.
In person you gotta alpha them. Gotta make them feel like weak, small, lame people. You can’t get mad, you can’t scold, that’s what they want.
Can’t be reiterated enough. The folks saying “bully them” are broadly right, but this is how guys “bully” other guys without leaving the door open for debate.
