Was my first experience with polyamory and im dealing with some sads. Would like to talk to people who understand rather than judge.
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Dang, that sucks! Were you dating both (all?) of them or just one? Did they tell you why they wanted to de escalate?
I’ve been polyam for years now and the thing that keeps surprising me is that polyam relationships often end exactly like mono relationships…where one person is just totally blindsided by the de-escalation. The other thing that surprises me is it hurts just the same. I’ve certainly been on both sides of it many times now and it’s never any easier.
Sorry you’re going through it right now comrade
