Was my first experience with polyamory and im dealing with some sads. Would like to talk to people who understand rather than judge.
They honestly did a wonderful job of communicating. I think their feelings changed a bit before the trip and they just now finnally sorted themselves out enough to communicate. Trip was a month ago tho. So yeah it just sucks.
Things ended amicably and we both still really wanna be freinds. But if what you say was going on, or like a metamor asked them to, those things would kinda make a freindship impossible. And greiving a best freind is so so much worse than just a breakup.
Thank you though. The sentiment is a huge help!