I think you’re moving the goalposts a but, but that’s a good question too!
Well, we could use mass media to normalize a broader range of genders and presentations
We could move to a family structure other than the hetero nuclear family
We could move away from punative justice and towards restorative justice
We could learn and teach each other to fight.
If you’re interested in this stuff, feminist abolition is the name for what you’re looking for, stuff like INCITE, Critical Resistance, etc.