If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it’s time for some introspection.
Idk, society used to tell me it was my choice to be attracted to the same sex (and if it was a choice, it would be a very good one tbh) and sometimes this genitalia preference discourse sounds the same to me. Not saying you are right or wrong, just trying to explain why it might come across as focused - considering I myself like women, and would date a trans woman because shes a woman, but that doesn’t mean I need to want to do stuff with penises
I’m sorry but this is completely fucking ridiculous. No, you literally cannot help what you are and aren’t attracted to. I’m not attracted to vaginas, never have been, and i can’t force myself into liking them. If someone’s no longer attracted to me because of my bottom parts then yea that sucks, but it doesn’t make them transphobic becausethey can’t fucking choose to
