If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it’s time for some introspection.
the thing that throws me for a loop is this view divorces genitals completely from the context of the person that has them and by doing so kind of implies that a penis is inherently male and a vagina is inherently feminine. Which kind of implies a view that even if a transwoman is a woman and we go with that view, if she has a penis that’s something I can’t be attracted to as a cishet man. which to me is kind of as absurd as saying a transwoman cant be a woman cuz she still has xy chromosomes.
If a woman has a penis it’s a female penis and I just can’t see a reason to be weird about genitals other than some kind of internalized heteronormativity. There’s no reason to draw a line at it unless you have some deep-seated issue with sexual organs that you also happen to have.
I also don’t want to disparage anyone for their preferences just the way I see.
