22 points

Could I get a summary? I’m interested enough to know the answer but not enough to actually watch the video.

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people wanna experiment gender without being call out(trans and not trans), lots of early models were like that, people do it because other do( to addapt to new enviorement).

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13 points

About what I expected, thanks.

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25 points

I’d say it’s also, for some people (whether they realize it or not) a more accessible form of gender expression than crossdressing.

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Can confirm, I was born a girl but found myself using male avatars a lot because they felt right. Am now non-binary. :hexbear-non-binary:

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15 points

Lol I was so repressed I would never pick femme characters because deep down I knew that was what I wanted for myself. I didn’t want to give myself an inch in experimentation or else I’d risk opening the floodgates. Crossdressing was even more of a no-no for the same reasons.

So yeah I totally believe that.

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I think that “digital expression” is its own thing. I’ve never had the urge to crossdress irl, but I always play girls in MMOs, and I know a lot of other guys like that (it’s the plurality in FF14, with over half of the players playing as catgirls). I dunno if there’s any research into this though it’s just the vibe I get.

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5 points

And I’m just over here masquerading as a utahraptor

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anime girl is the carcification of online avatars

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40 points

Why Does Everything Keep Evolving Into Anime Girl?

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I’m imagining a crab with the head of an anime girl and now I’m scared

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the ultimate lifeform :sicko-crab:

:commiku:
:hex-crab-chapo:

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Also in an intangible world, there are no downsides to being a woman and no benefits for a masculine body.

Hate and harrassment? There’s a reason women hide their gender on the internet.

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20 points

Yup. Try playing an online game with a generic g*mer username, and then change your username to a “girly” one. The tone of 99% of your interactions immediately changes.

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I remember the first time I played a game online and offered to turn voice chat on because it was faster then typing the first thing that was said was “You know guys only want to speak to a girl if they want sex, right? Why bother?”

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If people find out you are a dog on a forum or anonymous social media you will never hear the end of it. Expect to be harassed for your identity no matter who you are if you are foolish enough to reveal any personal aspects. Everyone gets trolled online.

Are you really going to tell me these cishet “staring at an ass for 60 lvls” chuds use female avatars in solidarity with women?

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What? No I don’t think they do it for solidarity? Most people think they’re dudes anyway? I wasn’t talking about that.

How is gender a “personal” detail? When was the last time someone rold you to get back into the kitchen for having a male voice in an online game? Trust me, there’s a reason I don’t turn voice chat on in online games but if I had a male voice I wouldn’t think twice because that shit doesn’t get you harassed. Are you going to tell me sexism doesn’t exist next?

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17 points

If people find out you are a dog on a forum or anonymous social media you will never hear the end of it. Expect to be harassed for your identity no matter who you are

thank you for recognizing my struggle 😞

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it’s a mix of both your comments. It’s a thing in VR chat that practically none of the girls are irl girls. For the player it’s keyhole glimpse into seeing yourself as a girl without having to be seen as a girl. They don’t receive the full sexist treatment that a girl gamer would.

lol that comment didn’t deserve a delete tho

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23 points

Because women rule and men drool :tofu-cool:

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18 points

And with their eyeballs popping out of their head, banging on tables.

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14 points

AWOOOGA

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Now now, we all know that dudes most certainly rock.

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30 points

I don’t really believe in cis men, tbh.

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honestly yeah. I feel more like a cis boy than a cis man. IDK how to explain that really but I just mean the idea of being a man has so much baggage I don’t know if that’s how I feel but I was born in a masculine body and that feels right, although i wish I didn’t have to shave every day.

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Damn, this comment fucked me up. I think that’s about the closest I’d be able to come to personally understanding dysphoria.

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7 points

Shaving sucks. I want to be able to turn off the body hair gene, please.

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4 points

I’m fine with body hair,but facial hair is so frustrating. Gotta put a knife against my skin every day. Too close and I cut myself, too far away and I look sloppy.

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until science discovers the “cis” gene, their existence remains theoretical

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I’m here

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