And what made it suck so bad?
The Democratic Party
I went to a wedding and their theme was polisci. The officiant was an ex-Obama campaign manager. I didn’t know anyone except the groom and I got stuck at the one table with a British guy.
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Well shit, I just wanted to score a cheap dunk because I didn’t think anyone would know him and I thought I could get away with dramatizing it. Now I feel bad because I actually had a really good time and the British dude was so nice that we made plans to go hiking the next time he’s in the US…
Edit: are you the guy he sat me next to at poker night because we’re both socially awkward communists?
Double edit: WAIT did you ever sleep on my couch in college? Or on that floor mattress in the living room? Did I take a picture of you at the wedding and send it to people from our college town with the caption “spotted - xoxo gossip girl”?
I was at a party with some Uni kids I knew in a big city and what made the party suck so bad was me. I was still in the alt-right pipeline and behaved like most of the time. This party was full of people with unconventional sexualities and genders (which I was too dumb to pick up on) and even though nothing “political” came up, it seemed like they knew I was on my way to fascism. I was uncomfortable, but I didn’t figure out why until like a whole year later. Decided to turn around when I realized why I wasn’t getting invited to stuff anymore.
Worthy self critique and reflection you did there though. I applaud you for that.
It definitely takes action and time to be recognized. One of the local VVN-BdA people I know did get away from literally being a fascist (parents were aligned to Nazi orgs and send their kids into nazi summer camps) when he was 18 over the last 10-20 years and now is an antifascist with a track record. Did take some amount of time to garner trust though and quite a bit of work I guess.
How long ago (roughly) was the experience you wrote about?
I can’t really think of any bad parties i’ve been to, plenty of boring ones, but never really ones that sucked. The most memorable party i’ve ever been to resulted in the host’s parents breaking up, and his mother ended up sleeping with his best friend.
Was the only person who went to a public school going to a party hosted and populated by private schoolers. Was super weird and white bread, no underage drinking or drugs which I was pretty used to at that point, though it was super clear most were carrying as much as anyone I would have known, we ended up playing some Apples to Apples before I imagine most of the others broke up to go to other better parties.
Lol I went to the college version of thisonce, where it was hosted by a bunch of students at a fancy NE liberal arts school. There was a lot of drinking but everything was weirdly ritualized and like dorky. Also, it was very clear that most of the people looked down on anyone from a poorer family.
I did make some friends from another public uni after we took some tequila shots together, so it wasn’t all bad.
