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This is the best possible use of his time

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reddit psyop

who is doing operations on whom?

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The CIA is attempting to undermine volcel thought. 👁

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nerds on other nerds?

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Very cool that this is considered being lucky

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I mean, relationships are a grab bag, particularly at a young age.

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My only hesitation here is that a lot of people are going to consider neurodivergent people “weird” at first impression and that that reaction is one that should be fought rather than followed unquestioningly.

Like I absolutely support following your gut when it comes to this but… I guess this is one of those areas where I feel that feminism that anti-ableism don’t intersect perfectly cleanly.

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Yeah I knew what you meant I just thought it was important to point out that “weird” has other connotations.

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This is very true, thanks for raising the point. At the end of the day “weird” is such a clumsy word that it’s probably not a good universal benchmark for evaluating someone as a romantic or sexual partner.

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Counterpoint: Giving anyone a chance (that is trying to get to know them) is about basic respect and is cool and good.

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I think there’s a middle ground here. Writing someone totally off cuz they gave a weird first impression is probably not a great practice, if only cuz you maybe denying yourself a good connection. But on the flip side, if they’re a decent person who’s just awkward and weird it should become apparent quick. If you still get weirdo vibes an hour or two in their probably just weird.

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I advocated for the middle ground though but for some reason “giving someone a chance” always gets interpreted as “have sex with them” (probably because a lot of incels mean it that way).

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Giving people a chance is about getting to know them not letting them fuck you

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See my other reply two comments under this one.

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False alarm, no actual s*x occured here

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13 orgasms is bad luck, at least get it up to 14 smh

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If you feel you can’t keep it up, at least stop at 12.

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Need 15 because 4 is also bad. Standard too high? Get better.

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That weird guy? Albert Einstein.

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Didn’t he have Aspergers? That alone would qualify him as the weird guy to most people.

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As I posted elsewhere in here, this is kind of my hesitation with “rejecting the weird guy outright is a good practice”.

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