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Probably the healthiest response. Short of just swallowing it I guess. Good advice

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The whole cleaning service part of that story made me think a bit. Maybe I oughta complain less and just do it so somebody who has it worse doesn’t have to.

Thank you for sharing, it was well written.

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I guess my point was that the dude is a total chud.

I can tell you from personal experience being raised by a right wing asshole father is damaging.

I don’t think he is irredeemable and want to arm myself with arguments to at bare minimum reduce his transphobia so that at least one member of the future generation is less damaged.

I recognize how this stance could be arrogant or nosy, but I’m not exactly in position where I have many chances to improve….anything. Idk maybe despair is exacerbating my asshole tendencies

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Fair. Still dissatisfied with the state of the left in terms of organization when compared to cults like this. My city doesn’t even have a DSA chapter.

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I was trying to be succinct. Would you like me to make a reply with a CW and an go into explicit details? I won’t. It isn’t productive

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Phrasing in the body is bad: mt point is he is gonna raise a kid. I want to influence him so that the kid is raised by a dad that is friendly to trans people rather than his current state

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You are very understanding. I only wish we had less wreckers trying to undermine the basic kindness underpinning such sentiments.

Imma make a post and pass out tho, hope you have a good one.

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Thanks, I’m well aware that as a cis person I truly cannot understand what trans comrades go through. I also post without thinking and lots of anger because the world is fucked.

Your comment did provoke thought tho. Sknce I’m the guy who ends up cleaning the things. I probably ought to learn about how to make them more friendly if possible.

Chuds want bathroom inspections? Surprise asshole! Imma do trans friendly bathroom inspections!

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