Remember, Volcel snitches get stitches
Dating “to marry” seems like it would just suck any joy out of dating. Like you’d be constantly evaluating whether a certain small flaw is something you can live with in a spouse, rather than just enjoying your time with the other person.
I’m gonna enjoy time with another person, but also at this point Ive done that a bunch already and if anything goes on for a good amount of time I may consider whether or not I could live with someone long term cause that’s sort of what I’m looking for at this point. Like, that obviously takes a good amount of time with someone to even consider together but I’m more interested now in a long term thing than just having fun and seeing what happens. I get where you’re coming from but different people are looking for different things
This site skews very very young. I think people’s opinion on this starts to change more to your perspective once you start approaching your thirties.
Not universally obviously. but when you’re like 21 it’s definitely understandable to be more concerned about just having fun and going with it bc you don’t realize how short life is about to be like you do when you’re 30. And also kinda like you said when you’re older you’ve had those experience and start to look for something deeper
