A lot of furry is problematic
What do you mean?
and there is a big lack of accountability/responsibility in furry spaces
Is that a good reason to create a better space here?
Firstly, I am coming from the perspective of someone who was active in the fandom for several years, got sexually/psychologically abused, and had an artist use their clout to silence me. I have met several other victims who have suffered similarly. This kind of thing has been a problem in the community for decades, especially because the content appeals to young and curious lgbt people.
I know my experience paints my opinion of the fandom. In my opinion it’s a fandom that glorifies parasocialism and emotional disassociation. Diverting emotional responsibility through avatars is the best way I can describe it.
If ppl want to have a furry community here IDGAF because I won’t participate, but I couldn’t help but be annoyed when I saw “disliking the furry fandom” equated to “hating queer people”.
“in my opinion [being trans] glorifies parasocialism and emotional disassociation. diverting emotional responsibility through [gender reassignment] is the best way I can describe it.”
like, i empathize that youve had bad personal experiences, been there, but what youre talking about isnt some intrinsic part of folks being furry, and the argument is literally straight out of the anti-lgbt play book.
Making a furry avatar that can be slipped on/off and changed at any at any time is in no way similar to living in a trans body and I’m really grossed out by this.
Sorry it came off that way. My mind just cynically jumped to ‘yiff in hell’ circlejerkers when I saw the downbears.
“a lot of [big gay] is problematic and there is a big lack of accountability/responsibility in [big gay] spaces and it’s not wrong for people to be wary of it.”
moral panic about the big gay intensifies
yeah, obviously if other spaces are problematic and lack accountability, the correct response is to do better :banana-duck:
Is Big Gay ^TM like Big Tobacco or Big Pharma? Industrialized homosexuality?