I’m serious, the few girlfriends i’ve had have literally had to ask me to hang out, not vice versa.
I catch women staring at me quite a bit, (that kind of stare, not just generally looking) but i’m too scared to approach at that point and say hi. I’m fairly tall and good looking, just socially akward as a motherfucker.
it sucks ass.
Ask her if she’d take the Volcel pledge with you. If she says no, she’s a reactionary.
Flirt. It’s an art of providing someone with the option of escalating or deescalating. It’s not necessarily easy, but you get better at it. And I don’t mean just getting better at “making people attracted to you,” you get better at figuring out if they are or not.
Also at a certain point you can just ask and then if they’re not just be cool about it.
Ya this ☝️
I’m the beginning, it’s as simple as asking where the toilet or salad bar is. It could be a point or it could lead to conversation.
Warmer, later stuff could be like “what are you reading?” or “where did you get that shirt? I like it”.
Later stuff could be dropping that you’re going to a show or art thing later. Again, they might show interest or it could be a “hey that’s cool”.
Ask her
Spending a lot of time together or making excuses to chat or hang out or staying up late to talk with you
Honestly, you guys are inspiring me to stop waiting for something to happen and just ask a girl the next time I catch her checking me out. I literally remind myself of Hughie from the boys lol. Need to start being more like Frenchie
I usually just ask guys out or ask if they wanna cuddle and watch a movie. Guys tend to be huge oblivious idiots when it comes to stuff like this so I make it as obvious as possible. I feel like most women know that guys are oblivious and work around that. My current bf was so oblivious that he only realized I was interested when I asked him for sex straight up.
