I’m serious, the few girlfriends i’ve had have literally had to ask me to hang out, not vice versa.
I catch women staring at me quite a bit, (that kind of stare, not just generally looking) but i’m too scared to approach at that point and say hi. I’m fairly tall and good looking, just socially akward as a motherfucker.
it sucks ass.
I’m serious, the few girlfriends i’ve had have literally had to ask me to hang out, not vice versa.
There’s nothing wrong at this, definitely don’t worry about this. If anything, it’s good.
You can tell that someone likes you in general because they’ll smile at you and try to be in your presence even if they don’t need to be. Knowing when someone likes you romantically can be difficult from cues alone because some people just like to flirt while others will be subtle. The only way to really definitely know is to ask them out.
I usually just ask guys out or ask if they wanna cuddle and watch a movie. Guys tend to be huge oblivious idiots when it comes to stuff like this so I make it as obvious as possible. I feel like most women know that guys are oblivious and work around that. My current bf was so oblivious that he only realized I was interested when I asked him for sex straight up.
If they seem like they’re sending social cues that they’d be receptive, roll the bones. Own your awkwardness and it can become endearing. Maybe even open with it. “Hi. I’m kinda socially awkward, but I couldn’t help but notice…”
Basically you gotta be a lil bit :lt-dbyf-dubois: and a whole lot :yes-chad: about it.
